McGrady & McGrady, L.L.P.

McGrady & McGrady, L.L.P.

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Protect your children as you work out custody terms

Going through a divorce challenges everyone involved, especially the children. They might not understand exactly what's going to happen, and this can cause them stress. It is imperative that you take the time to ensure that they are protected through the process. This doesn't have to be difficult, but it will take some effort.

Set the routine right away

Children need consistency in order to thrive. Make sure that you don't set a bad precedent for this because letting them do things that you won't normally allow can be confusing.

Encourage your child to enjoy time with the other parent

Some kids feel like they shouldn't let on that they have fun with both parents. Instead of making them feel like this, you can encourage the kids to make memories with your ex and the extended family.

Share expenses responsibly

You must ensure that your children have what they need. Part of this involves having a set plan for finances. This includes things like paying for extracurricular activities and school supplies. It also means making sure they have all of life's necessities.

Talk to your children

Find out how they are faring during the divorce. They might not understand some aspects of the new way of life, but you can reassure them that all will work out in the end and that both of their parents love them.

Communicate directly with your ex

Never try to have your children pass messages back and forth. Things can get misconstrued when they are allowed to become messengers.

Make sure that the parenting plan you agree to with your ex contains all the points you need to co-parent. Avoiding conflict is imperative in these situations because a contentious parenting relationship can make life more difficult for the children.

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